The Path of Love
This is the path I’m walking. It is a journey of remembering and creating your life.
My life has been paved with existential crises.
The kind of moments that last for weeks, with questions that wake you up at night.
For as long as I can remember, these questions have been on my mind:
Who am I? What am I here to do?
The question of identity has always been an essential topic for me. It’s the kind of question that keeps you awake at night, the kind that keeps coming back to haunt your thoughts.
I wondered for a long time why I didn't feel like I belonged. I didn't feel like I belonged in Réunion Island, where I grew up. I didn't feel like I belonged while studying communications and marketing. I didn't feel like I belonged in the role I was playing.
That started to change when I came out. I had been repressing my homosexuality for over 21 years, and overnight, the veil was lifted. I finally accepted this reality. It was at the age of 21 that I finally accepted this part of myself that was just waiting to see the light of day.
This identity crisis was formative. I use the word crisis for a simple reason: originally, krisis meant decision. It is the decisive moment in the evolution of an uncertain process that requires a choice to be made. The course of our lives is determined by the choices we make.
In my late 20s, I had to make the biggest decision so far: either keep living my life the same way—binge drinking, partying, blacking out, and feeling miserable—or change, radically.
Truth is, choosing to evolve is hard.
In these moments, you may think that your whole world is crumbling. You realize that the life you've been living was on autopilot, but you never really chose the direction. So your whole sense of who you are fractures, breaks down, and starts to die. You will probably resist it at first because that identity feels safe, but a part of you wants to emerge.
You are evolving.
And as you evolve, you have to grieve what does not feel right anymore: letting go of relationships, careers, and even a version of yourself that you thought was your 'true you' for so long.
Evolving in life can feel hard.
But it doesn't have to be only that. Evolving can also be fluid and harmonious.
Welcome to the Path of Love
The Path of Love is an invitation to re-member who you truly are. Not your job title, not your role as a mom, dad, or sibling. Not your queerness, nor your neurospicyness. It is an invitation to re-unite with the essence of your Self.
This path showed up for me in 2021, while I was in the depth of my Saturn return, during my first attunement to an energy healing modality called LaHoChi. As I was lying down on a massage table, waiting for the attunement to begin, my mind was going everywhere.
Then, something shifted. As my teacher had his hands on the top of my head, I started feeling, sensing, and seeing pink liquid light flowing through me from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. It was a moment out of time and space.
It was a moment of deep re-connection to the most primordial energy: Love.
At that moment, I started remembering what it was to embody Love, and to be unconditionally loved. I felt boundless, limitless, one with all that is. The veil of illusions lifted for a few moments, to give me a glimpse of the journey ahead: the path of re-membering, re-uniting, and embodying Love.
Now, I wish I was like this every day. But I'm not.
Like most of us, I'm walking through a lot of resistance from the outside world and from within. Fears, anxiety, feelings of powerlessness, and immense grief regarding what's happening right now in Palestine, Congo, Sudan, and other countries that are victims of atrocities.
Being on the Path of Love is not about bypassing these emotions, but rather about embracing them fully while knowing that, beyond all of that, the most fundamental, essential, quintessential truth is that Love is all that is.
This is the path that I choose to walk every day.
The Path of Love is not merely a philosophy; it is a practical and transformational journey into the core of your being, where you discover that Love is at the core of Who You Really Are.
From this Point of Love within, you are free to choose who you want to be, and re-create your life accordingly.
The Path of Love in action
The Path of Love is a systematic process designed to integrate the truth of Who You Are into your daily life, transforming your experience moment by moment.
It is non-linear, cyclical, and evolutionary.
We move with the seasons.
How I guide you on this Path
As I mentioned earlier, I first had a glimpse of the path of Love in 2021. And I have been walking this path ever since.
During the first 3 years, I felt stuck in stages 1 (Liberation) and 2 (Reconnection). I had visions and desires, but felt powerless and couldn't figure out how to realize them.
Then, something shifted. Life started to feel playful, and my intentions started manifesting into concrete results, like a loving romantic relationship or speaking at the biggest hypnosis conference in the world.
I do not have a one-size-fits-all approach, because I believe that each and everyone of us has a unique blueprint.
What I have instead is curiosity, a set of techniques and modalities, but most of all, an embodied knowledge of my medicine.
My medicine is Unconditional Love. It moves through me by making space for your true Self to emerge, so you can evolve in life from the point of Love.
My core approach is Integrative Energy Hypnosis, a unique synergy between neuroscience-informed hypnosis, somatic practices, energy work, and spiritual healing.
All these techniques and modalities allow me to do one thing: